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Dairy-free Butter #2 (Coconut-free)

Round two of this great butter alternative.

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by Angela Gallardo in Recipes, Sides & Snacks

The recipe for Dairy-free butter #1 is one of the more popular posts here on BRG but I frequently get asked what to do if there’s a coconut allergy. Due to working to add extra fats into my diet, I’ve spent the past 6 months exploring healthy fat options and how to use them so I finally came to a good conclusion on how to formulate this new coconut-free recipe.   Coconut oil might be my very favorite and works really, really well in the whipped nature of the first recipe due to the saturated fats, so I needed to find a good replacement that was solid at room temperature.  While lard or tallow are also amongst my favorites and are mostly saturated, I didn’t think people would appreciate all their butter needs tasting like meat as much as I would. 😂

Enter a recent serious contender for favorite fat:  unrefined red palm oil.  This oil is cold-pressed from the fruit of the oil palm tree and has been used for centuries in tropical areas of Asia and Africa where the oil palm tree is prevalent, a bit like olive oil has been used for ages where olives grow.  It contains more alpha/beta-carotene (vitamin A) and tocotrienols (an antioxidant vitamin E relative of tocopherols) than any other oil.  It’s trans-fat free, not hydrogenated, and does not need processing with any solvents like hexane (common with most vegetable oils).  It is not bleached or deodorized.  And best of all, it’s high in stearic acid, the saturated fat that is also present in beef tallow, causing it to be fairly solid at room temperature (and great for whipping!).

Consuming stearic acid, and other saturated fats, has recently been proven to have no association with elevated LDL (“bad”) cholesterol levels in the blood (as previously thought) and in fact increases levels of HDL (“good”) cholesterol.  And in defense of a high fat diet, this study showed that a low carbohydrate diet (which is inherently high in fat, particularly saturated due to meat consumptions, etc) actually lowers various cardiovascular risk factors like overall triglycerides, fasting glucose levels, blood pressure.  Therefore, red palm oil has a solid place in a nutritionally sound diet, and more so a dairy-free diet, where saturated fat sources are limited due to no dairy fat consumption (dairy fat is made up in part with the saturated fat palmitoleic acid).

Sourcing your red palm oil is a serious matter, since the kernels from the fruit are used to make palm kernel oil, which is a completely different product.  Palm kernel oil is used heavily today for a number of unsavory purposes.   It’s listed commonly as: vegetable oil, palmitic acid, and sodium lauryl sulfate, to name just a few.  That means it’s in your lipstick, shampoo, soap, detergents, margarine, fuel, and many packaged products like bread and chocolate.  And like I’ve discussed here and here, those should be avoided at all costs.  Palm kernel is in such high demand and therefore often responsible for the wrecking of rainforest and chimp habitats.  The high demand generally also means high yield at any cost, like heavy pesticide use.  Basically: gross, gross, and gross.

Read your labels and make sure you are getting the good stuff.  It should be bright, bright orange and semi-solid at room temp.  It should say “unrefined” and “cold-processed” and look for organic if possible.  There are many companies producing red palm oil from natural environments where oil palm trees have existed for years.  I use the Nutiva brand because it’s highly unprocessed and they state clearly that their processes are safe and humane.

You could use only red palm oil for a whipped version of this, but the taste is fairly strong for most people.  It’s a bit like carrot or maybe even a little watermelon-y?  It’s hard to describe but it’s actually very mild and it grows on you, just give it a little time.  Using a second oil in combo helps to both make it softer when chilled and mellow out the flavor.  In recipe #1, I used extra virgin olive oil for the unsaturated fat–I really like how it pairs with the coconut oil.  But here, I thought the strong flavor of a good EVOO just clashed with the red palm and that a mild oil was needed.  I chose avocado oil because it’s a fairly thin oil, still cold-processed with great vitamin E and monounsaturated fat levels.

The amount of avocado oil added will yield a variety of uses.  Less avocado oil gives a thicker, whipped version which will work better for (most) baking needs since it comes closer to the saturated fat levels in butter.  Adding more avocado oil provides for a soft, spreadable version for putting onto warm sweet potatoes or (hopefully paleo) baked goods.  The spreadable version is soft when refrigerated so it’s much easier to use straight from the fridge.

Dairy-free Butter #2 (spreadable)

1 c. pure avocado oil (NOT extra virgin)

½ c. red palm oil (NOT palm shortening or palm kernel oil)

½ t. sea salt (use if you like salted butter)


Melt the avocado oil, red palm oil, and sea salt in a small saucepan.  Use low heat until the salt is just dissolved.  Pour into the bowl of a stand mixer and place the bowl in the refrigerator for 30 minutes to 1 hour, or until the oil has solidified.  Remove from the fridge and using the whisk attachment on your stand mixer, whip on high speed about 30 seconds to 1 minute.  The mixture should lighten in color and become very creamy.  Scoop it into a large glass jar and store in the refrigerator.

Dairy-free Butter #2 (whipped)

½ c. pure avocado oil (NOT extra virgin)

½ c. red palm oil (NOT palm shortening)

½ t. sea salt (use if you like salted butter)


Melt the avocado oil, red palm oil, and sea salt in a small saucepan.  Use low heat until the salt is just dissolved.  Pour into the bowl of a stand mixer and place the bowl in the refrigerator for 30 minutes to 1 hour, or until the oil has solidified.  Remove from the fridge and using the whisk attachment on your stand mixer, whip on high speed about 1-2 minutes, until it’s lightened in color and looks fluffy.  Portion into a mold (this is the one used above) or plop it straight into a large glass jar.  Store in the refrigerator.  It will need to be removed about 10 minutes prior to use to soften a bit.

Note: whipping for too long can add heat and cause the mix to start melting.  If you whip looks a little limp, place the bowl AND whisk into the freezer for 2-3 minutes, then whip again.

  1. nana says:

    Love the beautiful color! Can’t wait to try it out!

    1. Thanks! I hope you love it!

  2. I am so so happy I found your blog and this amazing recipe. You are a life saviour! And I am sure I will find many more great recipes here. I am not vegan, but I recently found out I have intolerance and/or allergies to flour/gluten, potatoes, milk/dairy, preservatives, olive oil, coconut, paprika… and it is quite overwhelming when time for preparing a meal (for home or work) comes. It has been just a week of new regime, and I felt kind of helpless at times but when I find great recipes and recources like yours I can say there is light at the end of a tunnel. Thank you for that.

    1. So sorry to hear about your intolerances. I’ve dealt with my fair share so I totally understand. I’m glad you found me and hope that some of my recipes help ease your meal planning. 🙂

  3. Rachel Ramey says:

    Love that beautiful “grassfed butter” color!

  4. Panic Mom says:

    Any thoughts on what I might try instead of avocado oil? Maybe walnut oil, or another nut? My sons can’t have coconut or avocado either one…

    1. It needs to be an oil low in saturated fats (one that doesn’t harden when cold, basically). Other nut oils would likely add a lot of flavor, which may or may not be a bad thing. They’d work though. Another option would be light olive oil, it has very little flavor.

  5. Matt says:

    Would canola oil work in place of avocado oil (for a slightly less expensive alternative)?

  6. christine says:

    do these oils cook and fry well? I am recently dairy free and struggling to find a good cooking oil that I like. I can’t have coconut either.

  7. V says:

    So I have a palm oil allergy and coconut allergy (plus tree nuts)… I’ve been on the hunt for a vegan butter substitute to use in baking. I was wondering if you had any suggestions or recipes that might work with these allergies? Thanks!

  8. Cat Thompson says:

    Thank you so much first of all for straightening out my misinformation about Palm kernel oil and red palm oil which I thought were pretty much the same. But I have a question you mentioned using a stand mixer I don’t have one of those and I don’t even have a blender I have a food processor do you think your recipe either one of them would work using a food processor for blending?

    1. Hi there! I think a food processor would work well if you use the pulse button to blend lightly. Lmk if it worked for you!

  9. Tera says:

    Hello! Thanks for the great recipes to try! Why would you not want to sub with palm shortening in place of the palm oil? The shortening is made from the oil and not the kernels, correct? I didn’t know if there was a reason shortening was bad? I have never bought it but was thinking to try and would love your opinion on its health qualities.

    1. Hi Tera! Theoretically, you could use palm shortening but the resulting butter will be much thicker. But yes, the oil is made from the fruit and has a very different fatty acid profile (better IMO). I wouldn’t say the shortening is necessarily “bad” but is something that is probably better consumed in moderation. Whereas the palm oil has so many vitamins and carotenoids that it is actually great to consume regularly. Hope that helps!

  10. Evelyn says:

    How long would this keep for once made?

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